Monday, August 10, 2009

Compromising


Making decision is really the hardest thing to do especially when you are concern too much on the outcomes or consequences of the decision. But, sometimes we have the tendency to follow what our heart says. Thus, there is a possibility where we will question our rationality or insanity especially when we regret our decisions. ‘Temper’ and ‘the feeling of angry and jealousy’ often become the seducers that seduce us to say something stupid or act stupidly. While ‘egoism’ injecting our mind so that we will not giving up. Thus, this will produce new poison called ‘stubborn-ness’



Playing with words is a dangerous thing to do since you can’t take back what you already said to a person. The best thing you can do is to fix the situation by apologizing to that person. Then, you will promise not to say the same thing over again. But, sometimes you just can’t control yourself most probably because you want that person’s attention or you are totally angry or frustrating with the circumstances OR with that particular person. No doubt, without the readiness and willingness to compromise with each other, hence, it will jeopardize your second chance to be together.


The willingness to be honest, compromise and understand towards each other circumstances and needs are among the qualities that can keep two people together although the opportunity to have the second chance is still uncertain.

Friday, August 7, 2009

HELLO

It has been more than a month that ‘E’ and I never meet with each other since our last misunderstanding or ‘words war’ (an exaggeration). Last night, I took the courage by asking ‘E’ came to see me which enable me to share with him my ‘surrounding’. God know how I feel that time!!!! I thought it will be awkward for the two us to start our conversation but maybe because deep down inside that I really missed ‘E’ although I’ve tried my very best to forget about ‘E’ – As people say that sometimes you need to let your love one go if you really...really like him or her.

Maybe I did miss ‘E’ and that somehow gave me the courage to talk with him like both of us never have any fight before. However, I really unsure about our status or relationship especially at this particular moment, it’s (the circumstance) complicated. About three things that I’m really sure about are, FIRST, I miss ‘E’ more than the way ‘E’ missed me. SECOND, I don’t really care about our status or relationship as long as we feel comfortable and happy with each other. THIRD, we still need more time before we make any new steps or to prevent the same mistakes from being happened again

*For my blog....sorry coz I have been neglected ‘you’.